Please help

So the last time my bf and I were active it burned a little so I went and checked myself. I found two only white lesions (maybe) on my labia minora. The time before was on New Year’s Day so I don’t know if I magically caught something now when I’ve never caught anything from him before or if it’s a friction burn. I attached a photo below with two little white spots in the circle.

first sex pain

not sure if it counts as loosing my virginity, but yesterday we tried to have sex with my boyfriend. i’m not sure if my hymen broke, because when he entered fully it hurt like hell, i even droped some tears (edit: i did not bleed). He was very understanding and he said that we can wait with it, or simply try it another time. Yes i was wet enough, yes we used protection. since it was my first time it could’ve been that i was too tight and he was too big, or something else. my main issue is that i don’t know if it will get better the next time. anyone has similar experiences?

Discharge change

Sunday night he just used his fingers, and morning of Monday I woke up with brown discharge. But my period was a week ago Monday. Today I had light pink dischargeWhy is this

Bleeding

I have had 3 Boyfriends in my life On the same pill for all 3 But the 3rd boyfriend like 90% of the time I bleed why is this ?

Trying to conceive

When is the best time to get pregnant I’ve tried during my ovulation period and no luck. Any tips please ?

Constantly thinking during sex

Do I smell?Is he enjoying himself? Do I look gross? How do I look? Am I too wet? Do I feel loose? Is he feeling good? What is he thinking? Do I turn him on? Is he enjoying this? Constantly always thinking thinking thinking I don’t even get to enjoy myself. I’m just more worried about how I look how I feel smell, etc.. how can I stop this? I know my confidence and insecurities are in the way as well, but is there anyway you can get over it ?

What is this???

Not comfortable saying sex words

This might be weird to say but I’m curious if anyone is like this. I’ve never been a fan of actually saying the words “dick, cock, pussy or vagina” idk if I feel like it’s cringe or too dirty for me to say out loud? But my boyfriend wants me to say dick or cock whenever I ride or stroke him. I felt so embarrassed last night as I’m riding he was like “tell me what you’re doing… say what you’re doing to me” and all I can do is laugh it off and not say it. I honestly don’t know why I don’t like to use those words.

Getting eaten out

Ok am i the only person that doesn’t enjoy it that much? Or is my husband just not that great at it? Like I need more stimulation.Sometimes it gets really good but not good enough to make me finish.But fingering it takes like 5 seconds and im done for😂 idk any advice to give him so its more enjoyable for me? Bc i would like to like it

Im confused but scaredd..?

Im just gonna get straight to it…My boyfriend and I had inner course, we had unprotected sex and he did finish in me, later after I felt like watery come out of my vagina when I sat up, And I believe it was the sperm from the smell, my question is why does this happen ? And should I still take a plan b even tho the sperm “came out”?

Not horny enough

Since almost 3 years back I dont get horny and wet enough unless I drink a glass o wine, it makes me high somehow,, Any same experiences?!! Ps.Had HPV and passed fortunately, no positive result anymore. Is there any possibility that it decreases my hornyness?

is it possible to be too “wet”?

recently during sex with my boyfriend, i feel as though i’ve just been too wet. normally, it’s like a normal amount but i feel as though recently, it’s been excessive. i am not sure if it is a problem, and google isn’t the most reliable. i’m hoping someone can let me know if this is normal or something i should figure out.

bleeding after sex

i had sex a week ago and i’ve been having a bit of heavy spotting not like a normal period for a week and my period isnt for another week has this happened to anyone before?

I need your advice!?

How do I spice up my sex life? I’m very boring when I have sex I just get in whatever positions the guy wants me in or that I want to be in but I only do the basics (cowgirl, backshots and missionary). I don’t even know how to initiate sex. I just need some help yall!

Sitting on someone’s face for the first time

So basically this guy wants to link up and for me to sit in his face. I’m cool with but I’ve never done it so any advice on how to prepare for that? Or like what to expect?

Is it weird?

Quick question is it weird to bring lube to a “sneaky link”, I always get tears afterwards but I don’t want to make it weird to bring it to a meet up lol.

Am I the A-hole?

My husband is on dialysis and ever since he had a temp port put in he says he can’t get hard. We havent been intimate in at least 3 months and before that almost 5.. I have never complained cause he can please amazing with everything else! I just saw 90% of his phone is porn, I know I was snooping but curiosity got the best of me.. he tried to explain that him not getting hard is messing with him mentally, cause he doesn’t feel like a man. But all he does in his free time is watch porn cause he’s trying to get it to work, his words.. am I the asshole for getting upset??

Is this a waste of time ?

So i met this guy chat , he’s the sweetest but i don’t know if he likes me , im sure it’s a no. I met this guy at a club we had a good time we hooked up it was great it’s been a month going on two . Since that point we got into a car accident together . He helped me from the moment i needed help . He took over the whole situation . He complements me he buys me food and of course we still hookup . I brought up something serious and OF COURSE he mentioned he was not ready for that. I understood completely but I’m giving him 2 more months. There was a point in time where i caught him lying and i blocked him. Eventually he admitted it to me and i forgave him . Now he’s mentioned that he likes me too much and we need to give each other space so we can avoid getting tired of each other. I took this in a weird way because if you like me why do you want to stop talking to me for a week. He also takes forever to text back i understand because he’s a truck driver. But you can’t even say good morning ? Sometimes he won’t text the entire day and call me to make up for the fact that he never texted I’m sure i sound dumb but i would love to hear others opinions thanks 😊