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Foot fetish… help

So this guy I’ve been talking to has a foot fetish and he’s wanting to “worship my feet” (a direct quote). I’m not opposed to letting him but it’s not a fetish that I share. And my feet are extremely ticklish. Are there any tips or tricks you guys could give me?

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Last reply Nov 14, 2024

Rh

I guess like any bedroom activity - talk through his likes, dislikes, expectations and yours, what you’d be comfortable with or open to with him.

Might be a little embarrassing to ask

But what do you ladies do for hair down “there”?I don’t want any hair and trying to find out what everyone does to maintain or not have any at all?Please drop your secrets lol Thanks

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Last reply Dec 21, 2024

Ju

If you are talking about your own hair down there, you can use Nair or shave in the shower. If you get really trusting, let him shave you. Every so often I’ll let mine grow a few days and then he shaves me. We just put a towel down and I lay in the recliner while he handles business with some shaving lotion and a bowl of hot water and Epsom salts. He uses a warm washcloth to clean me up when he is finished.

Anal aftermath

So I’ve come to Eve because I’ve always wondered and cannot find an answer anywhere on the internet. Every single time my partner finishes inside my butt when we do anal the next day I have runny poos all day. Like not rlly bad like watery. Like I legit have been toilet today 3 times and if I was to fart I would shit in my pants basically. Haha this is such a weird question I’m just so curious. Is there a reason this happens does his sperm do something. It’s not annoying or painful just random.

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Last reply Dec 21, 2024

Ju

It’s possible the protein in his semen is creating some involuntary reactions in your gut.

H

……. I mean you don’t want them to be positive or detected so yes
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Last reply Oct 22, 2024

am

All the red flags
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Last reply Nov 21, 2024

Hi

I’m a huge proponent of consent, and this is the beginning of a convo that could put me at ease. If you’re unsure how you feel about his comment, talk about sex some more with him. If it sounds like he is mindful of consent and wants to instil trust - great. If it sounds like a sentence he learned by heart and he actually doesn’t know much else about consent, then you know it’s a ruse - run.

penis bleeding

so today me and my friend got a little frisky and he pulled out his penis and was looking up while doing it.. i’m looking at it and it’s bleeding so I ask him why. it wasn’t in the hole or anything. it was the circumstance where the tip ends to get to the shaft.. so basically it was on the shaft but closer to the mushroom part of the penis in the crease.. it was just a small line of blood like it had been cut or something. I asked him had he been jacking off or something and he said maybe. I can tell he was embarrassed but I did not make him feel shame whatsoever I played it off I understand things happen. I dealt with a guy that skin would pull if it was to much friction.. but blood? I always give him head so makes me not want to do that.. we do use protection. btw. but what could this be?

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Last reply Oct 13, 2024

J

Honestly he could just have dry skin that’s cracked and then bled? I’d tell him to keep an eye on it and if he notices it starting to be painful or the bleeding worsens then get seen. I wouldn’t think it’s an STI or and STD tbh but that’s my personal opinion.

What the ?

Does anyone know what kinda dms these are that I'm being sent ? I

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Last reply Oct 1, 2024

Av

Those are bots and spams. Don’t open them, just delete.

Squirting help

My boyfriend and I have finally gotten comfortable enough with our sex life and have started experimenting more. He asked me recently if I’m able to squirt and to be completely honest I have no idea. Can everyone do it? How do I find out if I’m able to? How can I help him help me? I have soooo many questions and I really don’t know much about it.

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Last reply Oct 13, 2024

Al

It’s peeing. Just pee.

Would you stay or run? TW

⚠️TW⚠️I’m going to start off by saying I’m not really sure who to talk to about this or where to ask questions about this certain topic but since I’ve been a member for so long and all you ladies out there usually give honest answers, feedback, etc. I thought that maybe I could come here. I feel this is a safe community. So about a month ago I (26f) started talking to this guy (24m). We clicked almost instantly and as I got to know him I have realized that we are literally the same and love the same things and we actually went to the same school just different times. I’ve never ever felt the way I do for someone like I do with him. I honestly feel like he’s my person, the whole when you know you know is super strong here haha and he feels the same way! He’s the sweetest guy and treats me exactly how I’ve ever wanted! This past month we really got to know each other, trauma bonded, etc. etc… We‘ve already had sex, he told me he loves me already, I’ve spent the night with him several times… we’ve done everything together basically… I was at his house this past weekend and he tells me that before we actually become official and start dating for real he had to tell me something… he wanted to tell me his biggest secret that no one knows about except his therapist and now me… I felt honored really but at the same time scared and nervous… he kept telling me that I would never look at him the same way again and said that if I didn’t want to be with him anymore he completely understands it… His big secret was… he unalived someone 7 years ago and got away with it… he told me in depth what he did and my god… he said he did it bc the dude was a drug dealer and was actively m0lesting a child at the time… he told me before that when he was little he was also m0lested as a child and didn’t want that other kid to be fcked up like him… To be honest… I was kinda shocked and it is literally the last thing I would have thought would come out of his mouth… he’s literally the sweetest person ever and I just can’t believe it 😭 I told him I would stay with him but now I’m just sitting here thinking ‘am I crazy for staying and wanting to still be with him??’ Ya’ll idk what to do I’m at a LOSS… be honest here, what would ya’ll do?? 😭😭

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Last reply Dec 21, 2024

Ju

If he murdered somebody for that reason, he should have kept his mouth shut. I would get out as fast as you can. My husband is a retired cop and I just read this to him. He said, “run”. He recommended you get out and keep your mouth shut because if this guy thinks you spilled his secrets, as in here on a public app, he may become violent toward you.

NORMAL OR ABNORMAL DISCHARGE SOS🆘

I’ve been having more discharge so i’ve been wearing pants liners ! Does this discharge seem normal or abnormal ? I’m freaking out

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Last reply Sep 21, 2024

Br

Have you taken a test?

Bi-curious? Need advice, please!

I am happily married to a man for 12 years now. I know that I don’t want to sleep with another man but I really do want to be with a woman sexually! My husband and I have had in-depth conversations about it and he seems to be totally okay with it! (He wouldn’t be involved with her at all.)I finally met someone by chance!! that does sleep with women and she is in a long term relationship with a man. Anyway, she likes to flirt with me and knows what I want and know I’ve never been with a woman!! But if the situation arises I think I would either chicken out entirely OR if it did happen feel guilty about it! This is something I’ve always wanted to do! Anyone else in my shoes? lol my husband is my best friend and I wouldn’t want anything to happen to our relationship I guess is my biggest fear! Any advice?

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Last reply Oct 24, 2024

Ki

Same except I’ve been married going on 6yrs and my husband knows my curiosity as well and encourages me to have/find a girlfriend but I’m so nervous and don’t really put myself out there to meet people

9 INCH PEN*S SEX ADVICE PLEASE

My new partner has a 9 inch penis and I would like tips and tricks as I am not used to having a partner with such a large size. How can I deep throat his entire length ? I’ve only ever been able to take 6 inches completely. And how can I take it all in vaginally ? He said he’s never been able to fit the full length of himself in others.Any experiences or stories would be appreciated!Hate and unhelpful comments are childish.

9 INCH PEN*S SEX ADVICE PLEASE
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Last reply Nov 17, 2024

KK

Start slow then gradually increase speed/pressure as you become comfortable you'll get used to it over time

Sneaky links

I have always wanted to have a person I can get to know and we go out, and we have sex when I get tired of my “friends” AKA sex toys. I have always imagined to have one but never did. How do I go about finding one?

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Last reply Aug 29, 2024

Br

I’ve had one that I met off a dating app 🤷🏽‍♀️ it wasn’t bad. I mean, he was more like a friend than anything and we understood each other. Just make sure that whoever it is that you guys are on the same level and establish what it is from jump.

First time with a woman

I have always been dreaming about new experiences sexually and exploring who I am. I am straight and I have been wanting to see how it feels to have my first time with a woman. I love men and everything about them, it’s just I want to know how it is only for one time. Tell your thoughts and experiences!

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Last reply Oct 3, 2024

Va

I enjoyed being with a woman. Don’t get me wrong my husband knows how to please me but there’s something about being with a woman that turns me on.

Not a lot of sex experience- help!!

My boyfriend and I haven’t been together for long, but we’re of course sleeping together. I don’t have much experience from before I got with him so I’m still a little shy with some things.Sometimes when we’re having sex, he’ll put his fingers in my mouth and I’m so awkward and have no idea what to do. Am I supposed to suck on them or is that weird?? Do I let them just hang out in my mouth???He also licks and sucks on my ears sometimes while he’s fucking me, like he’ll full on lick the inside of my ear which I looooove. It gives me goosebumps and feels really good. But I feel like if I try to do it to him I’ll mess it up and it won’t be sexy at all. And idk I just need tips. I can’t give him hickeys because of his job, but if I just try kissing his neck I feel like I’m not doing it right and it’s not hot for him. Advice??

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Last reply Jan 19

Ju

My husband and I made a deal early on in our marriage that as long as the activity was monogamous, we would never say no the first time to something the other wanted to try in sex. The first time my husband put his fingers in my mouth, I found it awkward too. I kept letting him do it to me though and I learned how to take them in my throat and suck them like I would his manhood. Then he started fingering me first, and making me taste myself. I struggled with that too, but as time went on, it became a real turn on for me. Now years later, I actually enjoy when my husband stands me in front of a full length mirror and gropes me between my legs and then makes me suck his fingers. It is so submissive and that little feeling of helplessness and being controlled is hot. I evolved because I was willing to compromise and work together with my husband. Communicate, ask questions out side of the bedroom, don’t say no unless you have to, experiment, play, consider his perspective. After 24 years of marriage, we have a hot and frequent sex life and my husband can’t keep his hands off me. We are still learning new things that turn us both on.

Eating Out

My ex boyfriend always made me feel awful about myself after he would eat me out. He’d say the smell and taste and texture was gross and he just can’t get past it to eat me out. We were together for 3 years and i did everything I could to fix any problems, but he stuck to what he said.Eventually he clarified that it wasn’t necessarily a me problem, he just didn’t like it in general (but didn’t tell me that until we were at the end of the relationship)I have a new boyfriend and he’s gone down on me a few times and I can’t help but feel embarrassed and like he’ll think i’m gross down there too. He hasn’t said anything negative so far and I don’t ask him to eat me out, he just does it. At one point he was eating me out, then switched to fucking me, and once he came he said “let me eat your fucking pussy again” which made me feel good.But I can’t help the thoughts in the back of my head that are telling me he’s grossed out and just doesn’t want to tell me because the relationship is so new. How do I get over these insecure thoughts? I keep myself clean and think I’m normal down there, but I’m still scared and can’t get past it.

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Last reply Oct 27, 2024

To

It was never you, men do stuff like that to break down your confidence, not real men, the shitheads that know you can do better..

Idk what to call this or even think of it

TW sexual assault.I still have trouble with what to even think of this whole situation so I ignored it for 5 years. But recently it’s been coming up a lot in my brain so I need to face it ig. Idk what to categorise it as though. I was a virgin and my ex would constantly beg me to have sex. I’d usually say no and we’d just do the whole everything but sex thing. This one day though he asked to put “just the tip in”. he didn’t put just the tip in. It hurt and I asked him to stop. He didn’t and I ended up having to push him off. Idk if it’s rape because I had consensual (?) sex with him after on different days bc he said “We’ve already done it might as well continue doing it”. I was convinced I had vaginismus &/or was asexual because of him (neither are true). It hurt every time we did it. I told him this and he still would beg me to have sex “you’ll get used to it” he’d say. I didn’t count it as sexual assault or anything bc I never said no after the first time. Only “it really hurts” and he’d keep going until he came. One time he choked me so hard I passed out. Idek what to do with these memories coming back.

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Last reply Aug 9, 2024

Ki

This is rape. Get some therapy to help you process

Lesbian porn??

Has anyone ever used the kiwkey website?Or what are some other good safe sites?

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Last reply Sep 4, 2024

Ro

Never heard of kiwkey. Careful w fake sites

Banjo string snapped

Husbands banjo string teared during sex today. Yesterday was my peak LH levels and we last had sex Sunday. Any chance I can get pregnant from that?

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Last reply Jul 28, 2024

🖤

Banjo string snapped?......What on earth does that mean?