Young & Married Couples

For all the young married women on here. A safe place where we can talk and not have anyone judge.

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Withhold until the argument is resolved. It's not a form of punishment, it's more like "Don't touch me, I'm pissed." 💁

We Got Married

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Last reply Nov 4, 2018

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Congratulations you look stunning

Wedding photos ☺️

Just wanted to share some photos of my wedding from back in September 🤗If you are having a wedding in the Flagstaff, AZ area, I HIGHLY recommend Julia Romano photography. She was amazing, and took all of these beautiful photos, including many many many more for a great price. You can find her on facebook!

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Last reply Oct 20, 2021

Sa

The kids were adorable your dress is stunning and the one where the sun is cast out on you when it causes a little Rainbow in the corner fabulous

Show off those wedding cakes

Hey ladies. So I was going through my wedding photos and came across my wedding cake. Absolutely love the real roses touch to it. Let me see everyone else wedding cakes.

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Last reply Dec 27, 2018

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Hard conversations

So my husband an I got married this past July we are in our late 20s and I’ve always been the type to think what would happen if I passed away so I set up different security blankets for my family so they could lie back on if god forbid something happens I don’t want anyone to be burden I feel it was an important conversation to have with my now husband but I felt so rejected he completely shut me down and got defensive and rude I explained to him my point of view and he said when he felt it was important to him he would then talk about it but didn’t care about the conversation am I wrong for feeling hurt that he shut me out and was so rude we got into a disagreement about it then I just ended it and I walked away is it to soon to talk about these conversations and should they even be discussed

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Last reply Oct 30, 2018

ka

Tha is lady’s really appreciate the input and a different point of view

stupid AF

was getting all dolled up for my husband whose about to get home, and run to the bathroom and who makes an appearance? freaking AF.... :'(

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Last reply Oct 25, 2018

All I want for Christmas

So today I asked my husband ‘Hey babe, guess what I want for Christmas.?’ His reply was another baby? Lol we have a almost 4 year old son and almost a 1 year old daughter and he’s already thinking I’m wanting another one.😂

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Last reply Oct 28, 2018

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Well, he’s thinking ahead 😂

Buying our first home- downpayment issue

Hi guys, We are about to purchase our new home and I would like to use gift money that my grandma sent me from overseas to help with our down payment. I read online that the money need to be justified. How would I be able to justify grandma’s money? She is not a us citizen and does not have a bank account. She sent the money though my husband who visited Romania, one month ago. Anyone knows if I can use her money? She gave me all her savings , $1,300 and I’m not sure if I can use it. I’ve read online that “ mattress money “ cannot be used because they are not justified. Any ideas how I can use the money? Anyone in this situation who received international money?Thanks

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Last reply Nov 13, 2018

L.

When my husband and I bought our first home, we had a fair amount of cash gifted to us from family. Our lender provided us with a letter (a statement, more like) that requires basic info as to where, why and from whom the cash came from, and then needed to be signed by the party who gifted us the cash. It was very simple and straight forward, see if something along those lines is available. Best of luck!

Does anyone know how to get the Instagram stories music feature?

I have it on 2 of my accounts, but my third one (the only one I want to use it on) does not have it. App is up to date, I have tried siging in on different devices and it does not work. I tried creating a story on one account with music and then save it to upload on my other account, but I can't save it since it contains music. Anyone know how to get that feauture on my other account? Or some way around this to where I can save it or something? I'm going crazy over here!

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Last reply Oct 24, 2018

Just like brand new!

My husband and I needed a new dresser but we’re newly weds and we didn’t want to spend a lot of money on a new one so we decided to refurbish it. I was nervous because it was our first time doing this type of thing but WOW I’m so proud of our cute little dresser!!BeforeAfter

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Last reply Oct 23, 2018

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I love it!!!

Edited Wedding Pictures

Would anyone on here be willing to edit some of my wedding pictures? A friend of mine who does photography on the side did our pictures and I was honestly disappointed when I got them back. He didn't take the time to edit a single one of them because "he hates editing" I was expecting them to be edited because the photographs were from such a special day. I thought about doing it myself but I don't have the first clue about editing or software 😟

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Last reply Nov 2, 2018

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If you still need help you can send them to me via email, I’m a photographer so I edit a lot lol

Help 😪

Me and my ex were together for 4 years on and off. There were issues with miscommunication and lying etc. he never cheated or anything like that and he wasn’t abusive. This recent break up we broke up in May and recently the past three weeks we have been hanging out and stuff. However, I felt kind of forced because what caused us to hang out is the fact that one night he called me crying and expressing how he felt about our break up and wanting to get back together and he wouldn’t let me get off the phone, if I hung up he would keep calling until I picked up etc. so after that phone call I said well let’s meet up and talk because he said “we never talked about what happened to us and why we broke up” even though we did multiple times. And now I feel stuck because today he sent edible arrangements to my job and he’s done a few other sweet and nice things recently. I just don’t know what to do. When we hang out a part of me is happy and thinks about getting back together and the other half doesn’t want to get back together with him. I just don’t know what to do. When I was single I didn’t think about him and getting back together. Now I feel stupid and asking myself what is wrong with me. I almost feel depressed.

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Last reply Jan 6, 2019

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My advice is: Whatever led you to the point of being single again and making you have that feeling like you do wanna go back to him but again you don’t, Definitely don’t ignore that quiet voice in ur head because I feel like he’s just tryna buy back your love instead really wanting to talk bout the real issues that led to that point of u guys ending it. Definitely take some time away from him as far as the idea of u being with him again til it really becomes clear about what it is you’d like for yourself. Because one thing is for certain if their is no happiness from within their is no point of continuance. 🤷‍♀️Source: Happily Married/I’ve dealt with enough relationships to know and understand what is needed to be in and keep a healthy one.Hope it works out for u!!

I really need to vent long read but please read

So I’m 37 weeks pregnant with my son me and hubby haven’t talk to his mom in almost three years she brealy got to see our twin daughters maybe like once or twice because I refused to have her around let’s take it back to 2009 when I was pregnant with our first child that ended in a miscarriage 😞😞😞 she bluntly told me that’s what i deserved cause I didn’t need a child anyways smh somehow I forgave her and we started to have a bond we went to her house for a bbq witch her boyfriend and my hubby took off to the store I told her I was really tired so she decided to offer me meth yes ladies you read that right METH I don’t do drugs like that only smoked weed here and there so I was took outta my comfort zone and was waiting for my hubby to come back because I felt weird she begged me not to tell my husband that she offered me that and I told her wtf I tell him everything! I’m not hiding what you just did so when he came back she pulled him aside and told him her self he made her flush it and then we left ! After that we didn’t talk to her for almost three more years because she found out we were getting married and wanted to be there he insists that she came because you know that’s his mother ok cool long as she don’t say anything to me fast forward to Jan I’m pregnant with our twins and I get a call from his aunt telling me his mom is going around saying I got her son hooked on drugs and that we used fertility drugs to get pregnant with our twins and if it came down to it he would leave me and my girls for her ... I texted her and blew tf up on her and told her i didn’t want her around ever again and when my babies are born she is to stay away ... my mother is somewhat her friend so she called my mother crying asking if we can all have a sit down to try and fix things so not knowing this is what’s going on my mom called me and my husband over we go and they are both sitting st the table she try too act clueless and say she don’t understand why I don’t like her and why I’m always picking on her so Outta nowhere my husband tells her she needs to respect me and that if it came down to it he would never choose her over his kids and me we have been together for almost 11 years and through this whole time she’s been using drugs so she starts crying and from there we stopped talking to her now fast forward to my baby shower for our son he felt bad that we haven’t talk to her in almost three years so he invited her ok cool I want nothing to do with her outta respect for my husband i said hi and kept it pushing ... a few days ago she texted him saying she wants to know why we are like this to her and what are the problems idk why but it pissed me off to the max cause she’s always playing victim she knows why we are like this but refuse to take her blame tell me if I’m wrong for not wanting anything to do with her tell me what you ladies would do if you were in this predicament?? I know she’s only trying to come around cause I’m going to have my son on Halloween but that’s one Face ID prefer not to see she didn’t even raise my hubby his dad did because she choose drugs over being a mom .. I really started my hubby talking to her in 2007 when we first got together 🤦🏽‍♀️ btw his grandmother hates me because of all the lies his mother went back and told her 😭😭😭 didn’t even give me a chance remind you their white my husband is half white and Mexican they told his mom not to give him his fathers last name because his dad is Mexican I’m the first black girl he has ever dated and now we’re married his grandma has yet to meet our twins 🤦🏽‍♀️ because she doesn’t want to 😭😭😭😭 only black person in his family besides my girls 🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️🤦🏽‍♀️

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Last reply Oct 21, 2018

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You’re not wrong & I honestly don’t blame you!!!

SOO CONFLICTEDDDD

so my fiancé and I are planning our wedding and we want something small with just immediate family. The only issue is like where do we have it at?? All the venues I’ve looked at and really like have a 100 person minimum at $100+ a head. I want a place that’s simple but classic so I was thinking a vineyard or something similar, but that’s just too expensive. Does anyone have any ideas or recommendations on a venue for a small wedding of 50 or less??

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Last reply Oct 21, 2018

Sa

I had mine in my Nana’s huge backyard. It fit everyone and it was free.

Ky

I refuse to give my children names that are already apart of my family in any way haha. First names at least. Middle names are designated to family names to pay homage and such. But first names in my opinion should be special to the child. Like I have two middle names, one after my moms grandmother and one after my dads mother. My first name is specific and unique to me. And that’s how my daughters name is as well.

Marriage 💍💍

Do you think anybody is too young for marriage? I’ve seen people get married or engaged at 18 I see nothing wrong with it like if that’s the decision they want to make they should make it! I asked my friend what if my boyfriend proposed to me and he said we’re too young. We’re just trying to do the right thing get married and move in together ❤️

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Last reply Nov 5, 2018

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I got married at 19 and he was 22 and we are happily married ☺️i do not regret my decision married my best friend and bf of 5 years

Custody battle

Anyone a attorney or lawyer or gone through the whole custody thing my son is 9 months old my husband and i take care of him I love him he is my everything i left his father a month into my pregnancy due to cheating drugs/alcohol and verbal abuse he has wanted no part in my sons life even said it many times I've told him I wouldn't keep him from seeing him I was in the hospital for 2 months with him he was a preemie the county told me to do a DNA test so I did I regret it now but anyway DNA came back and he's his of course and now he's saying he wants full custody after 9 months of refusing to see him what do I do I'm in NY

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Last reply Oct 16, 2018

Ca

The father will not get full custody unless the mother has been proven to be unsuitable (drug,abuse, in able to care for the child,etc.) If you can gather as much texts, previous criminal records, etc to show a safety concern you may be able to do supervised visits but he would have to be more along the lines of a rapist or have a history of domestic violence. Otherwise, they usually award joint custody, or 50/50- depending on the child's age. The courts will give him the opportunity to prove himself as a father, what he said about not wanting to be there is just considered hear say. Continue or start to keep records of visitations, times, etc of when he has the child. Do not withhold the child unless there is a real safety concern that you can prove and get a temporary restraining order. It will make you look worse in the courts eyes if you prevent him from seeing his child.

Show off your ring! 💍

My husband wants to get me a new ring for our 10 year anniversary so I’m trying to pick a few I like. Post a picture of your ring and how many carats it is please😍 Heres a picture of my 1 carat (total) I picked out 6 years ago.

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Last reply Apr 30, 2019

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Family!!!

I'm home by myself this weekend. My husband went hunting, my daughter is at her dad's and my step daughter is at her grandma's. I miss my kids and hubby very much. My husband and I got married December 2017 and found out were pregnant with our first baby together August 12th and I'm due April 17, 2019. I'm not use to being without my husband since we got married. He's done been hunting twice this year and this is the third time. I'm still not use to it. Oh well at least I'll have some deer when he brings it home!!

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Last reply Oct 13, 2018

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Omg I love deer so much! The back straps are my favorite when fried I use to call it deer chicken when I was little and my grandpa and uncle makes it into salami with ghost peppers in it (I look forward to it year round) lol

PCOS and Femara

Hi all!I have PCOS and do not get periods on my own. I am starting femara and progesterone soon. Has anyone had success with this??

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Last reply Oct 11, 2018