Well hello. I can see your underage and a little. Good for you to know that soon. But us older littles are not bullying you when we say wait till your 18..

Its not to bully or keep you down we promise. As littles we have to look out for our littles who are still actually little.. Its to protect you. Lots of fake doms out there. If ur underage and a little and meet the wrong person for that type of thing.. You will get hurt....

And if your underage more of the BAD kind of doms will come for you nd not the good kind...

Its not just calling some person daddy or mommy. Its a lifestyle.

They care for you.

Listen to you ramble on about the stuffie you saw in the store(and then dnt let you get it {yes it happened a few months ago nd yes im still up set bout it lol})

They tell you when your wrong and you get in trouble..

And any guy can do that. And its true they can..

Then theres all the

The cuddles with ALL your stuffies

Passies

Sippy cups

Coloring!!

And all that fun stuff.

But what a normal dom lacks is this

The understanding nurturing side. The one who will kiss your booboos and all that. Or the one (if you enjoy it) change your diapers or put pjs on you.

The punishments are ment to teach you... But if your gettin punished for not sending nudes the day you meet or something thats not right. Or. What if your getting demanded to call them daddy or mommy with out them EARNING it...

Your still young. You HAVE NO CLUE how dangerous this type of thing ACTUALLY is.

I hateeeeeeee putting it this way but its the only way i can put it.

If your underage and look even younger and have a stuffie nd passie in your mouth and a grown man whos into little kids sees that online hes gonna share it and get off to it.. Now what happends if that grown man also messages you or something???

We are not being mean or trying to bully you. WE BEEN THROUGH THIS. WE ALL HAVE OUR ABUSE STORIES AND OUR HORRID HORRIFYING STORYS. so please next time someone says your to young tobe in that group or something DO NOT get up set with them... They know more than you think. Putting out in the online world that your a little is dangerous at any age. Your employers can see it... Your family.. Schoolmates... It can get bad fast.

But if you feel the need to find someone who is a caregiver daddy or mommy pleaseee.

Find another little, Adult little preferably (me even)

Give us the details of your outfit

Your phone number

The other persons name

Where your meeting up address.

And all that.

Then use this key when texting:

Sos - If you need help

Cop- if you need cops called asap. In danger

Okay-if you feel safe

911- if you may need help.

Cool- if you feel 100% safe and will message when you get home.

This could have possibility to save your life...

Please dont take thing lightly. You unfortunately DO NOT know it all and can put yourself in danger if you get into this kink underage.

You have no idea how it should go or anything bc you haven't been with a Dom who knows what they are doing.

Ive been in BDSM for a while. My own parents are into it. So ive know the stuff i need to keep me safe for a descent amount of time, you dont. You have teenage boys who just wanna get off.. Us in the community can help if you ever find yourself in danger. Some subs and littles will even be okay with you asking their doms questions on whats right and wrong. Just gotta be smart and keep your wits about you.

Noone wants to see any anyone hurt, let alone a little hurt.

You can research all you want. You can not predict what will happed when you meed the dom in person or what will happen when you get an abuser who prays on the underage girls...

Please just wait with the BDSM. Please. We as littles have to look out for each other. And thats why i am posting this.

YOU DONT UNDERSTAND THE DANGER YOU PUT YOURSELF INTO. You can tell me you do.. But until your in a crowed house with noone you know but that person and something happens WHILE its crowed you dont understand... Until you meet the fake dom who beats you for hours on end over a 'little' thing that you do that he finds stupid you dont understand. Until your standing there in the room being told "no its okay he wont hurt you hes a dom too." you dont understand.

Until you have been through something this dangerous with a Dom you dont understand the dangerous life of BDSM.

ALOT of guys use BDSM just to beat on girls and rape girls. I wont sugar coat it bc yall need to listen up.

You can get raped, you can get beat, and you can end up in a body bag in just one night.

You can get trafficked and taken and forced onto drugs in just one night.

You can get prostituted in just one night.

All this can happen in a single meet with a 'Dom' or anyone really. Underage means you have more to "offer men" to someone who wants to hurt you.

Again not trying to sugar coat it and while ik this is true for any relationship and any part of lifem its even more true to underage girls. It can turn you away from being little all together....

Please get into contact with an adult who is a little. Please tske care of yourselves as well...

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Sincerely,

The little who at sugar before bed.

Littles🐙