Oral & Anal 101

This group is for any questions about oral sex both men and women and anal sex.

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Condoms?

I feel like this is a stupid question... But I've only now started learning about a few things. Should your guy be wearing a condom when doing anal? I heard if he doesn't he can get an UTI from it. Is it true?

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Last reply Aug 24, 2021

Co

Yes

BJ’s & Jaws 😮🍆

I’ve been going to the chiropractor and there’s been twice that my jaw was disaligned. I may have given a BJ or two before going but didn’t irritate me so I never knew it wasn’t aligned. Is this a thing? Do BJ’s disaligned your jaw? Am I doing something wrong? When I asked him why or what causes it he said “chewing” but I don’t chew a lot of candy. I really don’t want to say I give BJ’s either even tho it’s normal but he’s an old religious guy lol anyway just thought I’d see if anyone else has encountered this lol

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Last reply Aug 20, 2021

Silent hot sex .. 💦

So last night my fiancé & I were laying in bed I leaned forward with my ass up in the air to stretch my back from pregnancy.. as I was laying up like that he started playing with my ass put his hand in my shorts and went to town playing with me rubbing my clit while he fingered me pulled my shorts down and damn that tongue 🤤 he was licking it, lightly sucking it, went from my pussy to ass — I had my face buried in my pillow 😂 he came up by me and whispered in my ear “I’ll finish if you can stay quiet” I promised him I would and I did. But damn it has probably been about 2 weeks since we had done anything I had a yeast infection and needed to take care of that. I love how wild and amazing he is he always knows how to spice things up. 😍 had to be quiet cause I have a friend up staying at our house for our wedding on Saturday.

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Last reply Feb 6, 2023

Ki

Hj

Herpes or hpv or no .. if no tell me

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Last reply Nov 27, 2021

Ka

STIs aren’t going to show up on your hands. Could be regular warts or an allergic reaction to something. If you’re concerned, go see a doctor.

Throat Pain

So i sucked my friends dick last week. And honestly my throat has been killing me since. It could be allergies + smoke intake from the fires but i’m kinda scared. Even though i don’t have any STD symptoms, should i get tested?

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Last reply Sep 23, 2022

A.

Update??? I’m going through this rn lol! Same scenario

Lmao 🤣

Lmao 🤣
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Last reply Aug 11, 2021

Please help!!!

Everyone, so I am I have STI or maybe even herpes. So a few days ago I spent the night with my boyfriend and you know one thing led to another and he began to perform oral on me. At the time he did have a sore on his lip and we didn’t really think anything of it because we thought maybe he accidentally bit his lip or busted his lip at work. The very next day he did it again, but this time after we did it he asked me if I thought the sore on his lip was cold sore or fever blister. I then began to panic because I know that cold sores are a form of Herpes and he just performed oral on me. The next day I had two sores on my vagina nearing the opening. I had symptoms like frequent urinating, stomach pain by my ovary, and discharge. I am kind of nervous because I know I need to get tested but I’m not really sure where to go, I have never gone by myself and I don’t want my mom to go with me. Please help and let me know if you think I have a possibility of having herpes.

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Last reply Sep 21, 2021

Da

You have to go to your doctor for blood work. They will more than likely give you a medicine if so. However, it’s not life threatening and I hope that it all works out well. Try not to stress too bad.

I bought this! My husband picked the flavor lol

Have y'all tried this before? I heard amazing reviews and I am so excited 😆 anyone else try this it something similar??? Any wise advice or stories or commentary??

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Last reply Aug 19, 2021

Me

I wanted to try it for something new. My boyfriend picked the flavor (strawberry) and he started gagging and said it tasted like cough syrup. Traumatic experience for both of us lol. Guess he likes it the old fashioned way 😂 But I have heard lots of great reviews so I’m sure it will be amazing!

Teach Me Your Ways

If I’m being honest I don’t think I suck dick good. First of all my neck be hurting! Spit be everywhere and I just be like wtf in my head 😂 someone help me

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Last reply Aug 7, 2021

Co

Giving oral is different for everyone. Yes you end up with lots of saliva every where. But I seem to find some men like it wetter. I have been asked frequently by my partner and ex’s to spit on it. Take your time to explore different techniques. Try slow and fast. Your neck will hurt because of the movement you are doing. After many times of doing it your neck will get stronger if not try on your knees in front of him. You could also try being face fucked. Where you hold your head still and they do the work. But you will have to boundaries in if you can’t deep throat. As men don’t know how far they can put it in your mouth. If you do wanna try deep throat take your time. The more you do it. The less of a gag reflex you will have. I couldn’t deep throat for the life of me, but 4 years ago I started to go a bit seeping each time. Know I can go all the way down the shaft. It is literally practise makes perfect. Just keep going girls. Ask him how he likes it. Have that open conversation with him

Advice for Anal

What should I do or know when it comes to doing anal for the first time? I’ve been curious about getting a plug just for a basic feel for things but I wasn’t sure if there’s a better way to “prep”? My bf has been curious about trying and so have I but I just feel so shy and naive about it haha 😅

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Last reply Nov 29, 2022

Ka

Lube it up

Head with braces

Any tips on giving head with braces?

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Last reply Jul 11, 2021

Can't feel it inside me

I've been having sex with my partner every few days and I noticed that my vagina is tooooo wet to the point that I don’t feel his penis inside me and I have to act like I’m moaning all the time while I don’t feel anything 🥲What should I do!

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Last reply Apr 1, 2022

CD

😂 Reminds me of something I heard once:You know… just because you can park a 747 in the Grand Canyon doesn’t mean it’s not a 747!

Anal and A-spot

Make fun of me but I didn't know what the A-spot was but apparently some women feel more stimulation from this than the gspot! I am one of those! There's an A-spot on the back vaginal wall which can be hit during anal and that's why my anal orgasms are the best I've ever had! Also there's an A spot on the front vaginal wall so when he hits really deep, located at the top of the vagina, it feels as amazing as anal! So excited to have figured this out! It's called the anterior fornix.

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Last reply Aug 24, 2021

Co

Doesn’t happen for me how do I find it

head help

ok i love giving my husband head but here lately it just hasn’t been on the agenda. i started my cycle this morning and i feel so bad cause i want to give him head but i’m just not in the mood to do it ya know. my husband understands but i still feel bad cause i know he wants some and i want to but i’m just not in the mood. what are some tips and tricks to giving head when your not in the mood cause i still want to please my husband?

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Last reply Jun 28, 2021

Please Share Some Tips And Tricks

My husband and I have always had a pretty adventurous sex life (we’re usually open to trying anything at least once) but after having my son I have just felt like I’m not as “good” as I was before. My husband says it’s actually been better but idk if it’s the postpartum hormones but I’ve been really bummed out about it. So I’m looking for some tips on what I can do to really make him go wild. Blow job tips, riding tips, dirty talking tips, fun role play ideas, new things to try, really anything that you know works for your man. Thanks y’all!!!

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Last reply Aug 11, 2021

St

Anal play?

First time anal

My husband and I want to try anal tonight. We have a water based lube but that’s about it. What are some tips?

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Last reply Jun 22, 2021

em

Butt plugs. Wear one all day it will prepare you.

Et

Yes he does and I love it

Shaving a must?

Wanted to ask if all women usually shave down there before oral? I feel like that’s the deterrent from getting any oral from my man. We talked a little bit and found out that He’s also never really done it before and I’m his first (and his wife of 8 years, haha). I’ve just had a conversation with my girlfriends this week about this. I feel like I’ve been missing out and all this is coming to light now that I need self love and take more of my needs into play when we have sex. I feel embarrassed that I’m now just starting to ask him or talk about it. Any advice on shaving, oral, etc??

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Last reply Aug 29, 2022

CD

Don’t see the hair as an issue for a marriage of 8 years. But shaving might get him more interested just cuz it will feel and look different and he can play that up in head quite a bit and will turn him on. Now you can definitely say he has no reasons not to.

'Kitty' advice👅

He wants to give me head but I want to be tasting great! How can I become optimal down there??

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Last reply Jun 26, 2021

Da

Lots of fruits and vegetables!! Water, cranberry juice and pineapple juice