I asked my DH earlier this week if this weekend while I’m at work to please just mop the bathroom floors since it’s hard for me to get down on my hands and knees to do the mopping that’s necessary. I explained that you can’t use the swifer sweeper cause it doesn’t reach everywhere it needs to. I also ask him to just rinse out our shower so that all the hair wasn’t on the walls and in the corners of the shower..

Well... he yelled at me and said “I’m not doing all that! F**k I don’t ask you to do anything!” Probably cause the only things he’s actually responsible for is feeding the dog and mowing the grass. Yes he does help load and unload the dishwasher. But think about ALL the other things that come with house work.. laundry, sweeping and mopping all the floors, making dinner, cleaning up dinner, washing the pots and pans (cause he won’t do it), wiping down counters and always cleaning up his messes.. so all I asked was a little help mopping the bathroom floors since it’s harder for me now that I’m 6 months pregnant to get up and off the floor..

So I got stuck doing it last night while I bawled my eyes out the whole time. Then went to the kitchen and did all the dishes cause he I guess couldn’t do that either and fell asleep in the recliner... I feel sad and sorta depressed that I can’t get any emotional or physical help. I don’t use my pregnancy as an excuse to get out of work. I do as much as I can and just ask for just a little help here and there..

Ladies please give me some advice.. I feel alone and trapped and that I’m going to be on my hands and knees mopping the floor the day before I go into labor cause he won’t help out..

Well then to really top it off (I don’t care if he watches porn) this morning I grabbed his phone to put a pregnancy dad app on his phone before I left for work but instead I find ‘foot fetish prostitutes’ on pornhub. Like I said, I don’t care what he watches, but it’s the fact that we haven’t had sex in a week or more and he never even initiated to have sex with me so it bothers me that he just went straight to that instead of me..

UPDATE:

Thank you for giving me some helpful advice! I did talk to him and he said he felt bad for watching porn and that it was just easier that way cause he was tired but ya know.. horny.. he also said he doesn’t want me to get on the floor like I had to clean the floors and that I shouldn’t be around the chemicals like that. Which is true and thoughtful of him but at the same time like some of you had mentioned I like it done a certain way and I know if it’s not done that way then I’ll complain about that too. He said he lashed out like that cause I don’t notice it but throughout the week I ask him to do here and there things and so they just build up and when I give him a “list” of things to do it just overwhelms him.. which I can understand when it’s his weekend off but at the same time I think about how overwhelming it’s going to be for him when he has to watch our son when I’m at work. So we’ll see!!