My husband comes home and tells me his cousin and his wife are having a baby. That's not what pissed me off. What pissed me off was the fact that he said " it looks like they beat us to it". They got married about a year and a half ago. We will be married 4 years in May. We've been trying off and on for 2 years. According to home ovulation test I'm ovulating every month. I had a 21 day test done a week ago and still waiting on the results. I've asked him to go get his sperm count checked and he refused to do it! So when he said they beat "us", no they beat me because he is not being a team player. I'm happy for them but I'm disappointed in my husband. So from now on when his family ask about us having children, I'm going say that we can't have children. For all I know we can't. I'm just really upset. Ugh!