Cum position advice?

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I swear me and my boyfriend have been trying to get me to cum for the longest and it seems like nothing will work. But he's also fairly new to sex so we don't know if it's simply something he's not doing ..🤔 Is there a position that has always worked ? Or foreplay preparation that I should be doing ? Or any advice at all from people who have done it

Ps : I've done it once before and that was when my bf lost his virginity to me , he made me cum for the first time , but that was a few months ago and it hasn't happened since that one time

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I've only ever had an orgasm from clit stimulation. I've never had one from sex itself, and we've tried just about every position imaginable. Just doesn't do it for me. It's more common than you think, lots of women are the same way.

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Clitoral stimulation and a ton of foreplay

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Try a lot of foreplay. It might happen just from clitoral stimuli. I'm one of the lucky 30% that can have orgasms from penetration. If you were nervous the first time the two of you had sex, for whatever reason, that could be a part of it. I have a hard time having an orgasm if I'm feeling too laud back. There has to be some tension for me. I don't know why. Also, having him sit up against something with me riding him almost always works. It's different for everyone. Experimenting is really the only way to figure out what works.  This is a very personal question and you don't have to answer if you don't want to, but do you masturbate? If so, do you achieve orgasms? If you don't, then I suggest that you experiment with maturation first. Get to know your own body and what works for you. If your answers are yes and then no, I suggest trying a vibrator. If yes to both, then you know how to pleasure yourself, so could try to teach him what you like.

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It may not happen if you're thinking about it. Trying to force it won't make it happen. Just have some fun and see if it happens. I'm sure it will eventually. My SO is the first person to ever make me cum and it doesn't happen everytime but the sex is still great.

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Relax!! Do not force it. But try lying on your stomach with him entering you from behind and reaching under you using clitoral stimulation. Your body is relaxed and you feel closer to him at the same time!

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Clitoral stimulation by far except if you're too wet then that might be the problem so while before he focuses on your clit, wipe away some of your lube first. This used to happen to me, it was very annoying😂

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Missionary really really hard always works for me

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Standing position while you're leaning onto a chair or table. 👌🏻

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Put your legs on his shoulders, or doggie those are my favorites

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What position were u in the first time that u were able to cum

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