So I have never been regular, I'll sometimes go months without a period, and then turn around and be on my period for two weeks or longer. I've been to the OBGYN and he just puts me on birth control to help get me regulated. Now I'm ready to have children and not sure how to even track my fertile days without spending tons of money on different kinds of test. My OBGYN says I can not get pregnant on my own and my husband refuses to have Dr's help. I need some advise from others who might be going through the same thing.