Tattoo

My fiance now ex doesn't like when I post anything about my angel babies. And I had enough of it, he obvious doesn't care but it took so much from me when they were taken away. I wanna get their names tattooed and I'm pretty sure he will have something to say but it's my body and I carried them for both for 4-5 months. Opinions : I had a miscarriage at 10 weeks and I don't have a name, I have two stillborns which I had both baptized and name and I have a living daughter i don't have her name tattoo yet will it be wrong if I get theirs before hers? or do I get hers first or do I get all 4 kids tattooed, but I don't have a name for my second so do I do a date?