When does it get easier?!

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I lost my baby 3/2 and not a day goes by that I don't cry! I feel like no one around me understand and they just keep telling me my time will come. I had my time, I had my baby, and I had my pregnancy! It makes me so angry to hear people say that or to tell me I know it hurts because they don't know unless they have actually gone through it! I'm on my knees begging for god to heal my broken heart! I am lost and I don't know what to do anymore. My sister and my best friend both are pregnant, and it makes it that much harder for me! I know I'm not alone but I feel like I am, and bottom line is THIS SUCKS!!

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Honestly, the best thing I did after my miscarriage was decide to unfollow any newly pregnant people and currently pregnant people on Facebook. I know that seems silly and petty, but it has made a huge difference in my mental state not having to see reminders or announcements or progress photos. We had our miscarriage in December and I promise you, it DOES get easier. But I absolutely know what you are going through. I still hate it when people say things like "it's okay, you'll have your baby..." And I feel the same way. We DID have our baby. We DID have our first pregnancy. We DID know that excitement! When people start to say things about it, I just opening talk about my pregnancy. I'll mention my first symptoms, my first cravings, the first time my husband kissed my belly and spoke to our little one... it helps. And it also makes the people who don't understand be more aware of you and what you're going through. Don't be afraid to talk about it. Sometimes I just look at my husband and say "hey, I need to talk about our baby right now." And we do. And it helps.

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I am so sorry you went through this you will go through ups and downs I lost my sweet angel at just under 9 weeks back in July and I still have my not-so-good days but not as many. Like another poster said when your body feels up to it start working out it really helps to release the aggression the only other thing I can say is prepare yourself for when your angels due date comes because I can tell you first-hand I thought I was doing so well until that week rolled around and I felt like it was happening all over again and I wish someone would have given me the heads-up. Sending you baby dust and hoping we all get are rainbows

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I too had a misscaridge in January,I feel very much like yourself I keep busy but my baby is always on my mind,my heart still breaks,whenever I hear a friend or relative is newly pregnant,I also have family that is due three weeks after I was and every milestone they take in their pregnancy it really hurts me,I hate feeling like this I'm really happy for them but just very sad for myself ,I hope you are coping ok sending you big hugs xx

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Thank you all ladies I'm trying to be strong but some days are harder! I know getting pregnant again won't replace this one but I'm so ready for my rainbow!

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It's still early on yet, I had a miscarriage 10th January, I still find it really hard, but found ways that help me cope with it, and keep myself busy You will get there ❤️

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I'm still majorly grieving from my miscarriage in November. It doesn't necessarily get easier, but you get stronger. I still cry, but I try to surround myself with positive, productive aspects. I cut out negative toxic people, and try to work out at least 3 days a week. I am decluttering my house and trying to close that chapter. It's hard not to think about "what if I was still pregnant". Give yourself all of the time in the world to grieve. But just make sure you're not neglecting yourself in the process. ❤️

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It's a hard thing to go through, I miscarried in January two days before my birthday and I still have a hard time some days. It gets easier with time, I just try and keep busy, I also bought myself a necklace that I haven't taken off since the day it was delivered and I've bought cute little things that give me hope for my rainbow baby