Undecided?!

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Anyone undecided on kids? Turning 35 in six months and husband is 41, so now is the time, and feeling pressure. Just don't know how to make the biggest decision of our lives. Does uncertainty mean we shouldn't?? So confused. Help.

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Well have a talk with your husband and maybe spend time with some babies. You could watch "day in a life" videos and see if you'd be up for it. It will give you an idea of how it might be but having your own is pretty different. At one point in my life I didn't want kids but I have one now and he's the best! I wouldn't have it another way. Just ask yourself, if you don't have one will you regret it?

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Being uncertain could mean you don't want to. Personally I've always been completely sure I wanted to be a mom. It's better to regret not having kids than to have them and regret it. Just my opinion...

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I think I would like a baby, but the thought of a teenager sounds awful. Hahaha.