Boyfriends with trust issues? Discuss here!

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Anybody have a boyfriend who just refuses to trust you no matter what you do? It's wearing on our relationship and I feel like he needs to trust me. He doesn't want to because so many boys text me and flirt with me!

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You can't be in a relationship with someone whose jealousy and trust issues are going to suffocate you. Your relationship should be the place that you feel the safest and most open with a person and you can't have that if they don't trust you. Trust issues are a Bitch to get over but after a certain point there's no help for it. I could never be with someone who didn't trust me.

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Me and my boyfriend had this issue for a longtime. It can get really ugly. He would go through my phone, make accusations and get really nasty. We went through this for about a month, almost to the point where we separated for good. Sometimes trust issues come into play when someone had a rough relationship in the past and hasn't had the experience of developing true trust. This is a thing you will both have to solve together, no matter how bad it gets you must prove to an end that you can be trusted. Eventually, the solution with me was to stop talking to the opposite sex and completely give my undivided attention to him, show him he was valued and show him that I chose him for a reason. I would voluntarily show him the men who would try and talk to me and show him that I was always shooting them down. Often times men feel that they can't trust you because today women are the centerfold of attention and everyone is trying to have sex or get at you, and often we give attention back to these men. We may feel as if it is harmless, but this can be very harmful to a substantial relationship especially in the foundation, because relationships are founded on trust and exclusivity to your partner! Good luck on your relationship and I hope you guys get through it! It's a hard thing to do but it's worth it!

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My boyfriend trusts me but that may be because he has met all my guy friends and likes them... I feel like if he didn't our relationship wouldn't have lasted as long as it has! But I also make darn sure that he knows I love him! And I'm not saying you don't but do you flirt back? Or not tell him about it? Or are they guys he's never met before? Guys can get just as jealous and self conscious girls... I think he just needs reassurance and if it persists I honestly wouldn't stay. I'm sorry to say but that's something personal that he needs to learn how to deal with! Hope this helped❤️xx

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That's why you leave a find a man who can trust you

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Trust issues at first you have to get over with them, I mean show them truly you can be trusted.  Trust takes time sometimes. But if it continues in the long term you probably shouldn't be with them!

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My man had issues, his ex cheated on him . When we first started talking he would always accuse me or snoop on me and it would piss me off ! Sometimes we gotta show our men that we will go beyond any means to show our loyalty because that's all they want ! When we got together at first it was all good , but when we would be on ft he would hear my phone vibrate and he would ask me who it was all tha time ! At first I told him to just trust me but he wasn't having it ! And I was talking to other boys but I wouldn't get to serious with them . Eventfully he found out and we had a bad fight . I just stopped talking to other boys and always made sure he knew it wasn't no one else and things got better ! He still act up sometime but I always prove him I love him !