Losing virginity hurts

Hey girls, my boyfriend and I had sex for the first time the other day and saying it hurt very much is a bit of an understatement.. It felt like someone stabbing me down there.. We used a condom and I am on the pill, he also pulled out before he came as I am an extremely paranoid person regarding pregnancy.. Just wondering how long it will take before I can enjoy it and it stops hurting? Thanks in advance!