Family Rant !

Okaaaaaay so ! I don't know how to tell my boyfriend's family that I don't want anybody posting pictures on social media of my daughter when she's born. I don't want to sound mean but I think I should be the one to post her very first pic and I don't plan to post any pics of her until she's probably like a month old. I will announce that she's been born but no pics . I have already told my parents and brothers about it and they respect my decision now my boyfriend's side of the family is a different story 😒 it's almost pushing me to tell them that they can't come see her until she's a month old just bc I know they will not respect my decision and post pictures anyways 😑 my bf gets mad bc he thinks I'm just being a bitch to his family but that's not the case . If my family can respect my decision why can't they ???