Sex after birth?!

Question

Okay so my whole pregnancy my sex drive went down when I was 14 weeks the last time we did was when I was 40+6 so wasn't that enjoyable I'm 4 weeks PP and have barely any spotting its kinda like a yellowing pinkish to me lol I have my  Dr appointment on the 14th but wanted to know if I can before what do you ladies think? I had a vaginal delivery & barely tore

Answer

You should really wait 6 to 8 weeks.. But I was told as long as there is no blood u should be ok. 
I personally like to wait a while because I feel like after pushing a human out of there I should maybe do some work to get it back to full form, not that it really makes a difference but I like to have a few weeks (after the bleeding stops) to do those tighten it up things lol 😝 (probably won't make a difference but will make me feel better about yourself)

And that's just me, everyone is different ☺️😊😄

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6 weeks is the general rule :) I waited 8 because my stitches weren't dissolved yet

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They generally say wait 2 months.