Is the passion really over?

Question

Hi I am a 37 year old, mother of two children (8 & 10) celebrating our 12 year anniversary and definitely the best. However, for the last year I really haven't been enjoying sex or intimacy. 
Outside the bedroom we have a great laugh, when it comes to bed time it's like I have no need for it!
The only way he can make me come is to go down on me. My nipples don't have the same sensation, nothing feels the same anymore 😁.  He is so patient but it's not fair on him! 
Help!!

Answer

It sounds like your not attractive to your husband anymore after all those years! Yes, he's a very patient man with you now you need to find out why your feeling this way he's going to get tired after a while going down on you. Have a sit down talk or maybe some therapy can help ok. Good luck 👍

Answer

I don't think it's that you aren't attracted to him. I think maybe you should try something new or different. You not being as sensitive or intamite could just be because you have a family and kids now. And it's easy to get stuck in a routine