Too young? Not ready?

Question

What age do you think you should be before you have sex? And how long should you be with that person before you do stuff? I'm what many would consider a year or 2 too young but I've been with my bf for 3 years and we feel like we're ready. What do you guys think?

Answer

I don't think there's a "right" age, but you have to consider whether or not you and your boyfriend would be ready to take care of a child if you became pregnant. I'm sure you'll use protection, but you can't ignore the fact that something could happen to cause it to malfunction. I was 18 when I lost my virginity, and I definitely wasn't ready because it wasn't with a good guy. I would wait until you're both comfortable with the idea, and make sure you communicate to him if anything hurts.

Answer

I recently lost my virginity to a guy that I'm not even dating . but we've been "talking" or whatever for months and we act like a couple . what I'm trying to get to is it doesn't matter how long you've been together or how young you are . as long as you trust him and you care about each other and you both decide you want to be together in that way then it's right 😊