Baby movement...

I know we all see tons of post about baby movement on here all the time, but I am feeling really discouraged and would like some input. I am 20w 2d and I have felt nothing... No flutters, no kicks, nothing. I have heard and read from numerous people and educational sights that "everyone is different", "if it's your first it will take longer". However none of this is comforting when you feel like everyone else can feel their baby and you cannot, or when you work with the public and everyone seems shocked that you have yet to feel the baby at this point. So is there anyone out there with encouraging advice or who may be in the same boat, would be nice to not feel alone.