25year old+ please

So my bf of a year and a half or so has been trying to find a room mate to cut living expenses. He is not necessarily strapped for money but he is naturally a frugal person always trying to get the most for his money which is something i love very much about him. So after 3 months of trying a female responds and comes to view his apt. i kind of get upset because we have an agreement no new friends of the opposite sex which he requested and i was fine with it. Today he says the girl is going to start moving things in and i did not know. I honestly do not know how to feel. Im upset. I just feel being older that this is inappropriate if you are aiming for a marriage relationship with eachother. I trust him but believe in boundaries and safeguards. What do u think?
❤️❤️🤗🤗🤗*****UPDATE *****
Thirty minutes after finding out she was moving in and basically letting him have a peice of my mind....he gets this text from her below.  Talk about divine intervention. He expressed that he did not mean anything by it and will respect my wishes and make it clear he wants a male on his ads. He says his focus is finances and he hates the idea of paying fullprice for an apt he doesnt own. And he said i really have nothing to worry about with him having whatever type of rmmate because he is not going anywhere and wont let a random girl come between us.  Thanks for the advice ladies! I did share the comments with him. hahahaha! 
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