Family is trying to invade our baby time!!

So my husband has save his time off for when our lil girl is born. He has 2 weeks. We have a 15 month old and he took a week off for him. We asked that the family wait to come see her tell my husbands time off is over so we can have family time, and adjustment time. Also my family is 1000 miles away so when they come it will be for a week duration. We asked for the same space when we had our first. We lived closer when we had him and they didnt give us that time they gave us 3 days. In there defense he was born Dec, 21 so they came for Christmas. But...... everytime I talk to my Mother or sister they keep trying to get me to ok that they can come down the week she is due and stay a long period of time. No matter how i say it they keep pushing. We just want family time and alone time to get to know our lil one. I feel all thats left is to me mean about it. Anyone else having this problem?