For anyone who has been on other TTC forums, you will quickly recognize that they fall into two categories. I'll lable them "Butterflies" or "Snarks."

A "Butterfly" TTC forum is a very encouraging space. Everyone always sees that second line - no matter how faint. You are always ovulating. Your AF is banished. You are covered in baby dust. 

A "Snark" TTC forum is one where you better know how to ask the right questions - or someone will jump down your throat. In these forums, you are either part of the "in" crowd - or you better not even post. And heaven help you if you dare to ask "Do you think I am pregnant?" But then again, you do get some solid advice from time to time. 

So what's better? The brutal truth or the butterflies? What do you prefer? Why? 

And most importantly - how would you like the Glow community to be: More butterflies, or more snark?