Loosing it...

Jessica • Married {05-11-13} Mommy to two beautiful little boys Kobie {9-2-13} & Kruz {4-7-16}
I feel as though EVERYONE has an opinion about my parenting skills to my two year old, my pregnancy, and just my life in general.. I'm getting so exhausted and so tired of hearing people say what they think I should be doing or how I should be doing things.
If I have heard it once I've heard it a million times from my mother in law that my son needs to go to daycare (I stay home with him). My husband jumps right on it and always agrees with her which whatever.. So I go look at daycares and say I'll start him out maybe 2 days a week from 8-12 to get him adjusted. "That's not long enough.." "He should go more than 2 days a week.." it goes on and on. 
Being 38 weeks pregnant now and I feel like no one has had much of anything positive to say about me being pregnant. It's all been "Good luck with two boys" or "I don't know how or what you're going to do" can anyone just say congratulations and be freaking happy!?? 
I just feel like a deflated balloon sometimes. I put everything I have into being a mother and a wife and someone always has something to say...I know that's just life and people are ALWAYS going to give me their opinion if I ask or not I'm just feeling overly frustrated with it lately and feel like the opinions will just come flooding in once the new baby is here...I wish people would just save it!