So... I have something very weird happening in my life. My husband has finally agreed that we have a baby. I am over the moon. I have a son from a previous relationship who is about 5.

My husband is a weird zodiac guy. Whenever I talk to him about someone or we meet someone he asks their birthday and immediately pegs their zodiac and personality traits. He's the rain man of astrological signs.

So... You can imagine my annoyance when he picked 3 zodiac signs and pinned down when we could try and conceive. boiling down to us trying only a few times a year. And to make it harder he o KY wants to try the rest of this year and next. so 6 months out of two years!

I try to be optimistic.... That maybe it could happen that way. But when I look at it statistically, which is more my nature, someone's it takes couples trying every month for a year to conceive! I feel like its totally hopeless.

Everytime I try and talk to him he's very adamant and doesn't budge. I'm having a really hard time dealing with this and just want to throw in the towel period. Problem is. it would break my heart. I've always thought about having 3 - 4 kids. Now I'm pretty much asked to only have 1 and its full of stipulations.

He has also mentioned that if it doesn't happen naturally, that we will not continue with medical intervention.

Need some serious help here guys. I'm at a loss.