Have you hoped for a pregnancy while your partner isn't really ready?

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My boyfriend and I have been together awhile and I am really ready to start trying for kids but he isn't.
 We aren't using anything but the withdrawal method so I hope that I can fall pregnant on that, is that wrong though?

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If you're not ready, then why are you trying to bring a baby into this world? This is just messy, please do not bring a child into this world knowing y'all aren't BOTH ready because that can cause a lot of resentment from him to you. You need to talk to him.

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Yea I think it's wrong. You both should be ready. Sit down and talk to him

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I know many people who have gotten pregnant using "pull out method" basically, you may was well not and say you did. Any one who tells you otherwise has either a) been lucky (if you want to look at it that way) b) is bullshitting you or c) they are infertile.  Either way you look at it, saying it can't/won't happen is just a poorly uneducated guess. I also think if your man can't take two seconds to Google this shit and is still relying on this method then he should deal with whatever comes his way.

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That's not fair to him. I'm in the same boat. We use NO protection. He says if I get pregnant, I will have an abortion. Uh, no. Actually I won't. When two people choose to have unprotected sex and they make a child I think they should own up to their actions. Period. But I'm also not pro-abortion

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I secretly hope we accidentally get pregnant but I'm not doing anything to make it so I do I take the pill everyday I'm just hoping I do even though we're not ready but I know if we did fall pregnant we wouldn't be financially stable

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If he isn't wearing a condom and he knows your not on bc pills and you guys are still having sex then he should know there is a huge risk of you getting pregnant! The pull out method def doesn't work!!

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It's wrong but I want a baby like soon not sure when he's thinking about it or anything

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Yeah kinda. You should talk to him

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Yall both should be ready before you do that.

Have you hoped for a pregnancy while your partner isn't really ready?

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