Sex during IVF

J • Mom to Baby Boy conceived through IVF- pregnant with #2!
So my RE office gave me all these rules. After hysteroscopy, no sex for 10 days. After egg retrieval, no sex. After transfer, no sex. I never thought so little sex would go into making a baby!! And I'm going crazy because the most we have EVER gone during all our years together was like 3 days a couple of times. Did anyone break the above rules and had sex? Or had sex earlier than they "allowed??" Did it affect anything? I know fertility centers have a LOT of variations in the amount of time they tell you to abstain for after these procedures so obviously the shorter times must be ok too, right?