We are planning our first kid and I'm anxious. Don't get me wrong I love kids and I have always wanted kids but I just worry that I'm not in the best of my health right now, i gained almost 15 kilos after marriage of 2 years and i am a (little more than) healthy at 70 kilos and 5.5ft. I have never been heavy but this recent weight gain refuses to leave my side and I am worried that I will have complications.

That apart it doesn't help that i have commitment issues and an OCD to plan things to the T. But that won't be possible here... So I'm kinda freaking out... Anybody else feeling so?