Ttc in late30's anyone!?

Im thirtyeight, I got my iud out feb2013 had an ectopic in June and first was told it was a miscarriage and then weeks later was told I was still pg and lost my right tube.... Been trying since with no luck my ovulation was 12-18 and I did a third cycle of clomid.... I'm starting to get discouraged and so is my partner this will be my 3rd and his first. Thinking maybe I won't be able to have another ...,