Scheduled c section or natural #3

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I have 2 weeks to nake a decision on whether or not to have a scheduled c section or go natural im 33 weeks bubs is on the 22nd percental small for most babies but big for me my 1st was 5lb 4 at 37weeks +4 and he got stuck a little bit my second was 4lbs half an oz at 32 weeks +4 and his chin got stuck behind my cervix they used forceps to get him out hr had already passed away during labour .

The drs have said there is a likely hood of her getting stuck also but she is also bigger than my second boy already at 4lbs 1oz . She has 4weeks to put on 1kg if i go naturally and earlier than my due date which is 23 may and she gets stuck they will do emergency c section and not a normal c section either they will put me under general because of allergies to local and i have scoliosis which last i was told that i would have 50/50 chance of walking if u had an epidural but if i schedule a c section they will just give a date and hope i make it and put me under anyways.

I dont kbow what to do help please anyone whis had a c section what was ure recovery like