Have you ever asked your partner a question and get a response that you didn't expect? I just asked my partner if he thought every pregnancy loss was all the same stress and heartache, no matter the weeks or months and his answer was no. He said and I quote, "the bigger the baby gets the more the baby gets features, the more you hurt because it's looking more and more as a person" I am so heart broken... we lost our son on Christmas <a href="https://play.google.com/store/apps/details?id=com.glow.android.eve">eve</a> and I was 2 days shy of 12 weeks pregnant.. I was in so much pain I couldn't bare it so I laid in the tub.. then I saw the baby and I grabbed him. I held him for so long and I cried and I cried... to me a loss is a loss and they all equal the same heartache... I said I'd never post a picture of my son up on this site but I want some input. Do you think all loss no matter weeks or months are the same heartache? Here's my boy Maximus. What do you think of him?