Most girls, I feel, would be ecstatic about this. "How romantic" and whatnot. But a couple weeks before this I had mentioned to him that I felt a bit smothered. Having to call him every night to basically sit on the phone for hours talking about nothing felt like more of a chore than something I wanted to be doing. I'm the type of girl that is very laid back. I don't make plans. I don't use my phone often, things like that. And I had told him that long-distance will be good because I won't see him all the time so I won't get tired of him. (In a nicer way obviously) 

So after telling him that, I guess he thought it was a good idea to buy a plane ticket, a hotel, and rent a car to come visit me. Now I feel extremely overwhelmed. I'm completely uninterested in clingy men, but I don't know how to talk to him about this. Especially since he lives states away and we can only communicate over the phone or Skype.

The thing I feel the worst about is I've been told a guy likes me and it gives me butterflies and feelings I haven't had in a while and I want to act upon it and hang out or go on a date with this guy but I don't know if it's wrong to while I have aboyfriend. I've had people tell me it's only wrong if I hook up with him and others say it's all wrong. So, I'm just in a huge pickle and honestly just needed a place to vent. If you have any comforting advice please help! 

Also sorry if this was a mess. My mind is a complete mess right now.