Raped Jan 2015 & transmitted HPV

Its ruining mine and my fiancés life!!!! My symptoms completely left in November 2015 (11 months of warts and limited sexual contact). His are still there and ongoing 15 months later! We have both been on creams and gotten them frozen repeatedly then new ones were appearing out of nowhere. Mine just left one day on their own and didnt come back. His are out of control and the sprays and creams arent getting them away completely. For example he will go for a freezing of four warts then before the week is over theres another few showing up in different areas.  The freezing over and over is a hassle. Its agony for him and not to mention theres NEVER any parking spaces and we have gotten so many parking fines (little off topic but relevant in my explanation of how frustrating this situation is). The creams he is using are leaving him so dry down there, his foreskin gets stuck and WILL NOT move back or forth and theres now talk of him having to get a circumcision. Our sex lives have died. I havent been able to give him oral or touch his penis since December 2014!!! And we cant TTC anymore. The intimacy is gone. My heart is broke. I feel so guilty i have really put him through the ringer, he is so ashamed of his genitals and its making him so so depressed he is over eating and has piled on weight and my mental health is a MESS. Does anyone know what we could possibly do😭😭😭😭