hair. help!

okay so I've never been one to have very much hair. here lately I've been growing so much.. everywhere. in the wrong places! all over my boobs. black hair!! my downstairs hasn't ever been bad but now I'm super embarrassed about it because I'm starting to get thick black hairs even where my thigh starts. everyone says it's normal, but for me, this is not normal!! someone please help on how to slow the process or get rid of it 😩😩😩