Dissapointing sex on my birthday

So . This is just a rant .

Im so hurt today was my birthday i got no gifts or balloons or even a bite of cake which isnt that big of a deal i guess . But kinda hurts my feelings that my SO didnt plan anything:( well her works 2pm till 3am . The whole day he hyped my head up talking about "oh get ready for tonight im going to get all up in that" like sexual comments all day telling me to get ready so i do .. cuz we havent had sex in like a week well he gets home showers then it leads up to it . I didnt get any foreplay . We kissed for maybe 5 mins and he massaged my right boob then he just goes down on me im so shocked ablut not getting foreplay that i couldnt properly enjoy oral and i had to focus. No orgasm . Then i decide ok let mw make the best of this so then i perform oral on him then he tells me just to bend over , i do and i shit u not the sex lasted 4mins . So dissapointed i acted like everything was ok .... we cleaned up he left to the kitchen to go eat and i secretly cried and tried to hold back beforw he came back . He suspects im mad ablut something but i just domt want to fight about this but im so hurt because pur sex isnt romantic.. wasnt even close . I got nothing from pur sex tonight maybe im starting to feel so insecure like he isn't so sexually excited by me so much anymore. Hes 29 . I just turned 21 , i guess maybe my sex drive is higher i just domt know .... also i am pregnant so maybe am just hormonal but the point is im really hurt and dissappinted ..i feel as if my birthday was the most dissapointing ever . Mind you , he isnt just my bf . We have a apartment together and have been together for a year i just dont know what to feel right now ....