I didn't realise it was such a big deal to be able to make a guy cum when giving a blow job. I thought it was just kinda what happened. Then when I have my boyfriend a BJ for the first time (my first ever) he came after about 10-20 minutes or so. (I can't remember but I feel like this is acurate.) then talking to some friends they told me it was hard at first for their guys, or their guys didn't at all. One of my friends said after a few weeks of them trying 3 days a week he came and now does all the time. I'm just curious as to how easy it is for you all and whatnot. I guess I'm good at it. He raves all the time (just to me) and makes me all embarrassed.