My wife and I have been together for 10 years. We both have excellent careers, a wonderful house, a foster child, and I am 8 weeks pregnant with our baby. My wife has been texting another lesbian from work (let's call her A) for the past few weeks. She claims they are just friends. I have never met her. Tonight, at 9:30, I asked her if she was ready to go to bed. She said, no I think I'm going to get a drink with A and this girl that A is interested in and she hops off of the couch to get ready to go, leaving me at home with our foster child. She thinks I'm crazy for being upset, would you be upset?