This is our first child and I know people in the family are going to want to throw us a baby shower! We were just married in August of 15 so to me it's like we are asking everyone all over again to give us stuff. We have all our wedding money still saved which we planned on using that to buy all of our baby needs. I just really don't want to have a shower lol but everyone says it's the best way to get free stuff. Am I crazy for just wanting to skip that?