Stress and Worried Father 😨😕😨
I am soon to be a father. I am excited ! However my excitement is often mixed with stress and worries because of the relationship status w/ my baby's mother. Recently she has been becoming more and more distance with me. Currently we are on a "break" because of her request.Â
She is 20 weeks. Â I want to be apart of every moment of my child life from the beginning - but I feel like my girlfriend will not let me do so !Â
We currently live about 5hrs away. However, plan to live in the same city when the baby get here.
She has limited communications with me because she said I am too needy - because I call and ask about the baby and how her day is going. I like to read to the baby over the phone and love to hear how the baby is moving through out the date. I still care and love for the baby's mother - however I don't think she feel the same.Â
I feel like I will have not say in the life of my child. I feel she will only allow me to be a figurative person in the child life - and the more I read about court order custody order - it seems the court will do the same to me. When I try to call her - the conversation make it seems like I am a burden for her - and then after I read to the baby - she always say " that's all you have to say".
I need to vent because everyday I stress out about this. ould like to get your input how I can overcome this stress and worry. Or if you know anyone else who has experience this .Â
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