Should i or should i not work out?

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I'm really upset with my boyfriend right now because he keeps on saying "you need to work out haha." Now I only weight 108 which is OK for 23 going on 24 year old. I'm technically still skinny in a way. My mom and my sister was the same until about 25,  when they got their figure. My mom says i always been bigger then my sister was from 16 to now. I don't see what's the problem. I  always wore a  size 3 or 5 until now I'm a size 7 ( in bottoms). But then my boyfriend says "you have love handles on the side" "you need to work it out" " but I love that you got waist and a butt now" (smh men) should I work out a bit or leave it?? Also my doctor says I'm not unhealthy.. 😊

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Your bf is an ass

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You don't want to be with someone like that, that's emotional abuse IMO..

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I don't like the comments he's making. But of you're deciding whether or not to work out that's all up to you-forget what he says, think about how you feel about yourself. If you w ernt considering this before his statements I'd guess you're fine :)

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It's always good to work out to keep in shape like it's healthy, you don't have to do it to lose weight. It's up to you really

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How tall are you? I'm 5,4 and 112 and wear a 0-2. Regardless, 108 is small! How rude!? Is he in perfect shape or something?? I've never understood why people think it is appropriate or necessary to make comments  like this, especially from friends and family! People realize the damage they can do with words... Part of the reason why I've struggled with an eating disorder my whole life. Don't worry, you're perfect! Fuck what they say💃🏻💕😚

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Yea ur bf is an ass lol if he likes it then he needs to shut up but I'm all about being active and heart healthy I'm a walker I love walking b4 I was pregnant I would walk 4 miles a day just extra walking my fitb it always said 7 or 8 miles but now I've gotten this fatigue and sickness I've been lazy but need to get motivated again!

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Girl, I'm only 19. I weigh around 140 pounds and I don't look fat at all. I wear between a size 5 and 7 also. It sounds to me that he's being rude.

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First, working out to please other people will start an unhealthy relationship with exercise for you. If YOU feel like you want to get in better shape then do it, but not until then. It's always more work when your heart isn't in it. Second, I know a lot of people are calling his comments "abuse," but I feel like that's a little harsh. From your context, it sounds like he was trying to say it in a light hearted way and not being out right mean and hateful. His joking manner about it isn't doing you any favors though because it's confusing you since he's trying not to hurt your feelings. Also, you said other people in your life agree with him. Maybe try to have a serious convo with him and ask if he really feels that your weight gain is unattractive. Tell him how you feel and go from there. Guys don't really know how to handle this kind of stuff correctly.

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Um ok 1st it's always good to work out in your case you don't need to lose weight but working out is just healthy for you . 2nd I'm sorry but sound sleek you need a new bf and friends. !!how rude of them I have processed and have gained alot of weight do to it I'm 5'7 and weigh 200 my bf and friends never tell me I need to work out or lose weight but I talk to my bf and tell him I'm not feeling good at all about my weight so he supports me in losing it but he also says I look good how I am it's up to me if I want to diet and lose it. He loves me either way

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Weight goes by height not age but unless you're like 3 ft 2, 108 is not fat at all.

Should i or should i not work out?

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