It drives me crazy, my mother keeps calling me a bum! I quit my job a month ago because my husband has been building oil storage tanks across the U.S. So I am now joining him. I don't sit on my butt all day, I make his lunch, clean the camper, do my college homework, and cook dinner. He makes the money because he wants to support me. And when you change towns every couple months you can't really get a job. I am a home maker not a bum!