Ok so my husband is a private military contractor stationed out of country for (this contract) 105 days min at a time. And only home for MAYBE 30 days at a time. He's from KY I'm from LA. I own our home in Louisiana where I'm currently living. All my family is here and my friends. It's a small but nice house. The only problems we've had with it is lack of space and were 2 blocks away from the "ghetto" of my town. (We hear gunshots from that area often and it's got that stereotype living in the area so please don't get offended by my using that word 💘) anyway!!!!! My husband just told me that he's going to buy us a house in KY and wants me to move right away. I'm due end of May!!! We have a 6 y/o, 4 animals and an entire house load of stuff. I don't know anyone but his family there and I've only actually been around them 3 times for only a couple days at a time. My family doesn't exactly have the luxury of helping me move due to their jobs. Also why the hell do I need to uproot and move to his state when he's only gonna be home for a month or 2 out of a year?!? He told me there's no way he's going to allow me to stay here and that he's gonna take care of me and all that. Right now I just feel like that is a gilded cage.....maybe I'm just being too pregnant and emotional right now but I think it's freaking STUPID!!!! I really feel like he's not taking anything into account. Like are we really gonna afford 2 notes and homeowners insurances until this one sells. IF it sells. How are we supposed to know if the house he wants is ACTUALLY better than the one were in now?? Ugh!! Idk. Please help!!!