Okay ladies 35+6 and my husband is officially scared to have sex with me. We had an apt today and I'm 1 cm dilated and 50% effaiced. He asked my midwife if my water could break during sex and of course she said yes that can happen. Then she pointed out to him that because I'm softening he could cause me to spot after sex. He then came home and did his Google thing and now he doesn't want to have sex at all and I don't know about y'all but my damn sex drive is through the roof!!!! And really has been my entire pregnancy.