This is a long story that I'm cutting about half out because it's not super important. About four years ago I was set up on a blind date with a guy, lets say his name is J. We hit it off right away, and the more we learnt about each other the more we fell in love. He had to go back home since he was military, and we agreed to have a long distance relationship. About 2 months later he tells me that he was still married and didn't want to leave his wife. I had no clue he was married. We parted ways, with my heart in pieces.