Husband watching porn?

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How do y'all handle your husband watching porn alone to pleasure himself instead of both you and him?

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I don't understand why porn is such a huge deal to so many people...if you are secure within yourself and your relationship then porn shouldn't be a topic of conversation, what he or you do in your private time is your business.

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I give him the proper amount of time and space to take care of his business.

There's no need to "handle" it.

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Mine doesn't watch it but I would have to say I would get upset. I mean it's like why watch it if he has me to please him. I guess it would just make me feel like I'm not good enough.

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I get upset

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I hate it, it makes me feel inadequate.

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Its nothing wrong with it....because he knows i watch it....Our sex lives are great....If you have insecurity problems then i can see why some one dont like their man watching porn....I personally know hes not going to fuck one of those girls hes watching and the same goes for me....You can actually learn alot from porn.....(Sex wise) it can also spice things up.....Id rather have him watch porn and sext me while im at work 😂 But hey my sex life is amazing 😍

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At least he's not out having sex with someone else or having someone else pleasure him. I think it's okay. My boyfriend and I created many of videos throughout the years and I found out he likes watching those and gets off more to those then regular porn. I wouldn't worry unless it's all the time.

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I made a deal with him... We were fighting because of it and he was still trying to deny he did it even though I kept walking in on it... So I decided I was going to go crazy if he kept neglecting my needs cause he finished on his own, so I told him I'd let him watch all he wants IF he lets me be a part of his relief... I find it very hard still to be ok with him watching other women naked but it got us to wear he isn't embarrassed to talk about our sex life and just being more open with me in general... He can see it hurts me still so now he's been trying to focus on just me and lay off the porn as much as he can... It turns out even with the porn he prefers my touch more so he really appreciated the change as well.
Sense it's hard on me I don't know if that's something you'd be able to handle or not, but at the very least I would say you should talk to him about how it makes you feel and see if he has any ideas or requests (like maybe there's something he really likes that if you guys could do he wouldn't need the porn) or anything that could help both of you get what you need and help your relationship... Good luck!!

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So.. I can't be the only one who likes porn more than their man does?  My husband will occasionally watch with me or dumb nasty crap a Co worker sends. I keep him pretty busy but I wouldn't mind if he was a avid porn watcher. I enjoy it myself.

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My husband does on occasion if I fall asleep and hes in the mood and doesn't want to wake me, since im almost 27 weeks it's getting more difficult for me anyway. He doesnt hide it, he even asks if I mind that he takes care of himself and I'm ok with it, we still have a healthy sexual relationship. sometimes its hard to "get there" with no motivation and I understand completely.  I dont see a problem with watching it unless its become an addiction of some sort or your sex life has diminished, etc.

Husband watching porn?

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