​It will be completely random. He'll change positions while sleeping (I know he's asleep bc of the snoring) and the next thing I know his hands are in my pants or he's tugging on them to get them off. I also know he's still asleep bc it's just...different. Like he's fumbling around or taking several breaks that last a little too long. Usually about halfway through the act he becomes lucid enough to keep going and finish. But each time he has no recollection of how it happened so I have to fill in the blanks.

​I can tell it kind of bothers him. It would upset me too if I were doing things in my sleep and have no memory of it. He's worried what would happen if I ever tell him no. He doesn't know what his mind will tell him to do if I don't let him have sex with me since that's what it wants him to do. I read that it's similar to sleepwalking and I've heard it's not good to wake someone in a harsh way.