Bf wants to have sex with someone else?😣

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I've been dating my bf for about 3 years now and he recently sat me down to talk. He told me he was having the urge to fuck another woman or have a 3 some and I was happy he confronted me other than doing it behind my back. But I am confused because when i told him I'm up for a 3some, he keeps bringing up my cousin and he doesn't seem too fond of the idea when I mention a different girl. He says it has nothing to do with me and that its about his manhood and doing one last thing like that before he settles down with me.. I'm a little undicided because I'm not sure what to think.. Any thoughts ladies? What would you do?

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He's been checking out your cousin and looking for any excuse to get in her pants. He's probably only mentioning her because he knows you won't mess around with your cousin, if you're like most people at least, & wants to be alone with her. If a man truly loves you, he doesn't need anyone else to validate his manhood. I call bullshit

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Total bullshit. Wanting a threesome is one thing, as that is a common fantasy. But saying he needs one for his manhood is just fucking stupid.
If my husband came to me and said he was having urges to be with other women I would leave. Straight up. And to top it off,  wanting to sleep with a family is sick. He's got issues. Move on.

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Ew ew ew ew ew him suggesting you do things with your cousin would be enough for me, that is disgusting. He's definitely full of it.

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I had to stop at "manhood" 😂

Sounds like you've just got a cunt of a boyfriend who's dead set on fucking your cousin, I'd leave.

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RUN FROM HIM . DONT LOOK BACK . Be glad you aren't married or have any of his kids leave the son of a bitch .
Fucken dirt

You deserve better

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Dont buy into all his excuses. Hes not right for you if he was truly commited he wouldnt want to sleep around with any one else especially family. A real man wont tell you its his man hood he needs to get it out of his system so to speak if thats the case dont get in a serious relationship. Tell him to get lost.

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I also call bullshit. My husband had only been in a relationship with a handful of people, and slept with fewer before we got married, but because he loves me and no one else, he would never even think of asking me something like that because he knows he's not missing out on anything with those other women when he's got the love of his life waiting at home for him every day. 
I agree with the pp, he's most likely been eyeing your cousin for some time and is just wanting a reason to have sex with her. If I were you, I'd put my foot down and tell him if he wants to have a threesome, YOU pick the girl you guys bring into the bedroom, NOT him. It has nothing to do with manhood or w/e bs he's trying to spout at you. I've had threesomes before, but that was always my rule was I pick who we bring in that way I know they have no prior attachments.

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He could already be fucking your cousin..

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BULLLLLLLSHITTTTTTT

I didn't even finish reading this cause he's reason is absurd. If it's about is manhood he should have the control of a man and keep it in his pants. It's normal to sometimes think of other people but telling your SO you're going to act upon it before settling down is basically like saying "hey I like you, but I think I may be settling for you, so I'm gonna go see if I can find something better real quick before I make my decision." I'd be pissed. He wouldn't get a threesome or any more of me...

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This happened with my best friend and she is now in a custody battle with the jackass. Imagine if you had a baby and he wants to do this, would that be ok? Because if I  wouldn't do it while I am married I wouldn't do it, that's my policy...manhood my fucking ass! He decided he doesn't want to deal with you calling him a cheater and decided to ask your permission to "share" your cousin with you, your cousin!!!

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