Does anyone else think it's weird that I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 21?

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I just feel like an outsider because everybody in my family has a boyfriend or husband, etc. I have no children and everyone else does. When I go to family gatherings, I still feel like people don't take me serious because I'm not like my siblings or cousins (either have children, a mate, or both). I mean honestly I'm in college right now. I find that it's important to have an education first than actually settling down especially at a young age. I don't really plan on having a boyfriend anytime soon but if by chance he does, how will life be?? Hmm..

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It's not weird. It'll happen when it's supposed to.

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I hadn't had a boyfriend until I was 26. Almost 3 years later, we're still together. Don't feel bad or pressured, it happens when it happens.

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No it's not weird. I'm 21 and I've never had an official boyfriend. There's a guy, but we mostly just hang out or have sex and it's not official. It'll happen when it happens and I think you have the right attitude about it.

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I don't think it's weird at all... mabye you've never had that interest to have one until now and that's perfectly fine. If you want to start having a boyfriend I think you should go for it I don't think that will interrupt your studies😃

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Just do you. If school is #1 focus on that and then worry about dating you are young you can find love later. Men and women have different goals just like you and your siblings don't rush it I got my first serious relationship when I was 19.. We took classes together and helped eachother study we both are still in school I'm working on my MBA and he's studying to be a computer engineer were 5 years together. If you find a guy to push you and do better in life good for you but if he's only going to hinder your goals move on.

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Well I'm 14 and I've had 3 boy friends already. You may want to try and be with as many guys like as friends first, I have notice the way you treat guys will also determine if you have a boy friend. I am happy that you are saving your self for the right person. You may also want to check you. Like personality wise, way you talk, or how you smell or look. I don't really know you. And I've never seen what you look like but besides that a guy should love who you are and God is probably making you wait and you'll meet the right person sooner or later. Also join things if you want to be more interactive with people or guys join like groups like reading, church, lead groups. Really postivie things so then you know if you have the right guy for you. Positive guys are always the most healthy relationships. But the way you will get treated in your family or so will be a little different they will probably be like ooooohhhh she has a bf. And you'll notice if your family is like this they will want to know him so that means they will want him over a lot. But when you do get a bf. I'm going to give you some tips. Since you haven't had one. Give them space, respect them and support them, but if they disrespect you in anyways then they need to go. A lot of guys will put a fake face on when they first meet you so be wise. Good luck!!!

Does anyone else think it's weird that I've never had a boyfriend and I'm 21?

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