I just had our second son almost two weeks and I've been very fortunate to be a SAHM with our two in a half year old and I plan to be able to do the same with this little guy too. But my husband has been nagging me nonstop to put our two year old in daycare 2-3 days a week because he thinks he needs to be around other kids more. I am so frustrated because he is around other kids...he plays with our neighbors, he does gymnastics every week, and I have a lot of friends who have kids his age. Everyone tells me how great he can speak and hold a conversation. He's just VERY energetic and stubborn. He has a hard time following directions. I'm guessing that's why my husband thinks he needs daycare but my MIL planted that in his mind 😑 she's always telling me "I never got to stay home with my kids they were in daycare at 6 weeks old. They're going to get sick and that's just that." It's so frustrating. And also having a newborn in the house I don't want to expose him to all the germs my two year old will get bc I know he'll get sick a lot having not been in a daycare before and I know no one is going to care for him like I do.