Loosing your virginity ?

Question

So me and my boyfriend really want to have sex but I am so scared of loosing my v card because of all the painful stories. I would love to hear about how yall lost your virginity. Please share!!

Answer

I was 21 and dating someone who wasn't worth my time. He wanted to on the very first date and I told him no. He kept pressuring me until I finally gave in after about a month. Which was not cool because he knew I was a virgin.It was painful and I bled a little bit. I was really sore the next day. It got less painful but it was never good for me. I think it was because I was so uncomfortable with him and he didn't do anything to make me feel comfortable, as long as he felt good was all the mattered. So a month after we had sex and I left to go to college. He completely started ignoring me would go days without texting me or calling or even answering my calls. So I was heartbroken over it. But a few months later I met my current boyfriend who is amazing. We've been dating for almost a year and half and we just had sex for the first time a few weeks ago. He's the only person I've been with since my ex almost 3 years ago. This time is was much better, and it's getting better everytime we do it. It doesn't hurt at all he takes my needs into consideration. And we love each other and it's just so much better than before. What I guess I'm trying to say. Is wait don't rush into it. The more you love and trust someone the better it will be. If you're not sure about it don't do it. I don't want you to regret it the way I regret my first time.

Answer

I was 17, dating a guy that I'm not with anymore. I see as a mistake for giving something so special to someone who wasn't worth it, but at least I got experience. We were at his house on a Friday, he knew I was a virgin and as we were making out in bed he asked if I wanted to, I just acknowledged because I wasn't sure but I didn't want to disappoint him. Mine was very painful the first time. That's why you need to ask your boyfriend to go slow and easy on you. I also bleed I little bit, but that was it. Trust me, after the first time the pain will go away and you'll see how good it is to have sex (when the person knows what they're doing, of course!) good luck.

Loosing your virginity ?

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