Preseed 3rd cycle trying preseed 2 years of trying

(Rebecca) • Im 33wife married 14 years and have 3 boys 14,9,3
Hoping to concieve this month!!! Tired of "trying" and not getting anywhere so im going to try to "not try" and just think postive and hope for the best I've tryed not thinking about it but idk how to get my mind off it ugh I have 2 boys and really want a girl i have 2 more trys for a lil princess but now im ao frustrated to the point where I still want my girl but just want to be pregnant and have a healthy baby!!! Any advice on what I can do I have a doc appt may 27 if i havent concieved by then Im hoping to get pregnant before then baby dust to all!!!!👶🍼👶